Month: January 2014

gayshotas:

inexpensive (and cute) online clothing stores masterpost!!! (this list will continue to be updated)

• sammy dress – korean store with very low prices, only downside is that it can take a little while to get to you if you don’t live near by
• chiara fashion – uk store with reasonable prices, shipping is very cheap considering distance ($5 uk-us!!). con: must create account to buy
• fashion 71 – korean store with really great prices, ships by weight
• viejos amores – so cal store, quality vintage clothes with good prices, reasonable shipping
• life is short but fake flowers are forever – an affordable etsy shop that sells realistic-looking flower crowns (custom orders are available)
• east clothes – korean store with okay prices, has a week return policy 
• body line – more expensive than the other links, though their lolita section is priced well when compared to other stores. also have affordable wigs for cosplaying
• brave store – pricier than the aforementioned stores, but has reasonably marketed skirts, as well as averagely priced accessories (using code “pastelcutie” gets you 10% off)
• hearts&mermaids – primarily for flower crowns (takes custom orders), but does have a few reasonable clothing options

palecream:

twoforonebigegg:

the reason oppressed groups say “___ are awful” instead of “some ___ are awful” is because including the word “some” allows individuals of that group to detach themselves from the problem and shuck the blame off and say “well they arent really talking about me so i can ignore their opinions”, whereas stating that an entire group of oppressors is awful makes the individual think whether or not theyre included in the awfulness of that group and makes them consider their actions so thats why people say “men are awful” or “white people are awful” and if you take it personally you’re getting angry at the wrong people

#if you take it personally you’re probably part of the problem