“people who "my condition doesn’t define me” and then pretend to be stupid for their own purposes"

mum brings that up whenever i can’t do something and i have literally never said that. i have never said that whatever weird mental thing i have doesn’t define me. i have said that i didn’t want to tell teachers at school, because i didn’t want to be treated differently from everyone else, and also bc they would probably help me with symptoms i don’t have and not ones i do (i say weird mental thing rather than a specific disorder bc i have no idea what i have, just that i probably have something)

but every time i can’t do something mum quotes that and i don’t know why

i’ve never said that

also why would i pretend to be stupid, that almost certainly results in me getting yelled at, getting yelled at is the worst thing